By Poonam Agarwal

Are newspapers designed for men?

The thought struck me as a friend was commenting on the probability of early elections, a topic that I had overlooked though I read the newspaper everyday. It was not a conscious decision; I just did not register its presence. It could be because I am not interested in politics. But it could also be because news papers are very male-centric.

Could it be that women respond to a different layout, different kinds of headlines and different images? There is certainly a huge market for magazines targeted at women but the content is very womanly. The handful newspapers targeted at women are either entirely based on gender issues or are fortnightly magazines in the form of papers.

How about a regular newspaper with different design elements that will interest women more? It will have all the regular news except for perhaps a smaller sports section, an extra personal care or women in news section; only, the news will be represented differently. More images could be used. The layout can be based on behavioral studies on women. The content representation can be drafted based on the information needs of women.

The surge of women oriented products in the market starting from Scooty pep to the all women Standard Chartered bank at Calcutta proves one thing; that women are carving out an identity for themselves. With the growing decision making power of women and more and more women joining the business world, the women herald could just be the next big thing. Especially given the marketing dollars that are targeted at women, marketeers are forever on the lookout for effective media that can target women on a regular basis. The Woman Herald could target either career women or housewives depending upon the content.

By Gerry Restrivera

The worst thing that could happen in a relationship is watching her get bored with your marriage or with your relationship. If your marriage is getting dull to the point that your wife loses interest, you have to recognize it and do something to make it work and last as long as possible. You have to keep her interest and save your relationship.

You have to do something to keep her interest, remember that marriages can be saved and you have to take action and be ready to rekindle your relationship with your wife. Keep her interest to continue living your life with her and enjoy years of happy marriage.

It is important to have an open communication with her to keep her interest. Women love to talk and to discuss their feelings. Men tend to be too busy with work and other things and if you really want to keep her interest and to save your marriage, you have to give her your time to sit down and talk. Talking with her will give you the chance to find out what is going on with her and what she needs from you.

Be willing to take action. Knowing what her problems and what she needs from you is not enough. Knowing what makes her bored and unhappy is your key to transform your marriage. You have to be committed to take action to keep her interest and make things work between the two of you.

Couples usually become so comfortable with each other, life becomes a routine and that makes the marriage boring. They forget how to have fun and add spice to their marriage to keep it fresh and exciting. When your wife tells you she is bored, and losing interest in being married, take it seriously and do not ignore her.

Think of ways how to keep her interest, plan a romantic getaway to rekindle your marriage, surprise her and make her feel special like you used to do. Do something nice for your wife and let her know what she does is appreciated. Spend quality time with her. Get some alone time with her and make things right again.

By James B

You have to remember that whatever you say, however you gesture your hands, arms, head, and eyes, women are NOT taking your movements at face value. If she jokes with you and you lightly push her away as if to say "Stop", she’s taking that simple gesture as something more: interest, dis-interest, enjoyment, annoyance–any of a million different signals. She’s reading it for further suggestions as to what kind of guy you are, and what your interest in her is.

In short: Know that with body language, girls are always reading the way you move and act!

In my multimedia attraction course, I detail seven proven ways to make a girl's heartbeat flutter and send her your way! It's top-notch stuff, for top-notch seduction.

For now, let’s look at each in more detail:

1. The confident eye gaze

This is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl’s eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE. If you see her look down and smile, you know you’ve made it and the time to approach is now. If she looks away from you but doesn’t smile, give her a shot nonetheless; just the fact that she met your eyes for a second or two shows interest.

2. The Dale Head Drop

So named after the guy who mastered the art of getting women rushing to his side, just with a simple shrug! If you really want to blow away a girl–and show some balls–meet a girl’s eyes, then knowingly drop your head to the side, as if to say, "Hey, you know you want me. Come over here and get me!" I’ve found this to work incredibly well in foreign countries. In the States, the girls tend to be able to see through it a bit more–but it still works!

3. Smile!

It’s often overlooked, but nothing communicates happiness, confidence, and interest in a girl all in one like a nice big smile. Show the girl you’re in control, show her you’re confident, show her you’re a fun guy to be around: brighten the place up with a big smile! And if your teeth need work, then get them fixed! It’s good not just for your chances of meeting a girl, but also for your health and appearance!

4. Open Body Language

So many guys walk or sit with their arms crossed, their legs close together, and their faces anxious and flat. Stop that! Welcome a girl into your world: Have your arms open and leaned back, your legs open and relaxed, your face warm and inviting. You’ll not only attract yourself into a girl’s world, but also into the world of people at a party, club, or bar who can help you meet a future girlfriend–or even wife!

5. Lean back her

As you’re talking to a girl, especially while seated, show her your interest with confidence by leaning away. This is the confident, assured posture of the alpha man. It forces her to lean into YOU, thereby putting you in the position of the chooser. It also communicates signals to her that she has to EARN your respect--that you're not going to just give it away. And that drives her, WILD!

Of course, when things are going well and you're starting to develop a bond, you want to lean in. You don’t want to be a creep, of course, but you can generally tell by a girl’s body language and tone of voice, how interested she is in you. If things are looking good, show her your control of the situation–and confidence in yourself–by leaning in and generally getting closer to her. This communicates to her that you're ready to take things to the next level. If you've done your homework correctly, she'll be ready, too.

By James B

It’s a question every guy asks himself, every guy struggles with at some point or another, every guy desperately wants to know the answer to:

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?

The answer isn’t easy to come by. There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old; fat, skinny; talkative, quiet; beautiful…not so beautiful. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities. It’s enough to drive a man crazy! We want to know so badly what it is women desire that Hollywood addressed the age-old question with the movie "What Women Want" (which, I’m embarrassed to say, I enjoyed).

So, surely…there must be something ALL women want?

That’s the good news: There are certain qualities every woman can appreciate. And the best part is, these qualities aren't necessarily what we think they are. Maybe we think being 6'5", wealthy, and jacked like a football player is what every woman wants, but (thankfully) it’s not. Only certain women want that, and the groupies who only want a millionaire athlete on steroids usually aren’t even worth your time.

It’s better to focus on the girls YOU really want: the girls who make you feel good, and make you a better man. Empower yourself with a sense of choice, so that you don’t waste your time (and theirs) hitting on girls who don’t fit with your personality and purpose. The great news is, if you can provide the basic qualities that all women REALLY desire, then getting the girl of your dreams will be easy!

So let’s look at some things we can safely say women want in a man–regardless of his size, regardless of his looks, regardless of his wealth.

1. Higher value. That is, women want to know that their man is someone other women would want. They want a certain "gotta have" quality about their man. This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend, women give us looks and always seem more interested. It’s annoying but true: the easiest way to get a girl, is to have one already!

Naturally, that doesn’t mean that you should be hitting on girls when you have a girlfriend. No way! But when you are single, it’s important to know how to show value. I’ve got a great lesson on this in my e-book that will show you everything you need to know: how to make her laugh, how to show a talent, and how to make sure she never leaves you.

There’s so much to learn, but in short, you want to be a guy girls love to be around, and that other girls want to have! If you don’t feel like you’re there right now, do your best to be a fun-loving guy who people enjoy being around. Be quick with a smile, and quick with a joke. Even a guy who smiles a lot can be someone girls want. Who doesn’t enjoy being around someone who’s happy, who lifts the mood of the room?

2. A man who needs her…but not too much. This can greatly value from girl to girl, but basically women DO want to feel appreciated. They just don’t want to be obsessed over. Guys, show interest in a woman, and make her feel beautiful and wanted…but don’t slave over her and make her feel like you can’t live without her. That’s just pathetic, and drives women away.

I wrote a blog on how women want to feel needed. Check it out now if you want to find out how to show your woman the right amount of love.

3. A feeling of security. Women want to feel safe with a man. They want to know that everything’s gonna be all right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and strong, or have millions in the bank. It just means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look after her safety, and assure her when she needs it that things are going to be OK.

It also means coming to her protection, when she needs it. If someone is being a jerk to her, stand up for her. If she’s being threatened, fight for her. Let her know that you will fight for her, and nothing will get in your way.

One of the best ways to make her feel confident that you will protect her, of course, is to be…

4. A guy who’s in shape. Okay, I said that you don’t have to be a professional rugby player to attract women, but that doesn’t mean you should let your body slide! Part of a woman’s evolutionary mechanism says that a man who is strong will protect her and the children, as well as produce strong children. Likewise, a man who is weak will produce weak children, and not be able to protect the family as well (if at all) It may occur subconsciously, but it’s there.

So show her your value by being a guy who’s well-built, healthy, and athletic. Join a gym, not just to get women but to improve your health and the way you see yourself. Join a martial arts class–who doesn’t like a guy who can kick some ass? You’ll feel better about yourself, making it easier to pick up girls, and her mating drive will only naturally attract her to you. It’s a win-win situation!

5. Someone who’s not boring. Doesn’t matter how good looking you are…if you bore a woman to tears, she’s not gonna stick around–or even give you a chance, for that matter. Be someone who smiles. Someone who’s quick with a laugh. Someone who doesn’t take life too seriously, who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than a guy who’s stiff and serious–even if he is good looking or wealthy. Believe me, there are lots of guys who have money, who have good looks–but are single, because they’re dull and not fun to be around.

6. Someone who’s good with her friends. You’ve seen it at bars: girls always look to their friends for their approval. Get their friends’ approval, and you get the girl’s approval.

Oftentimes it’s actually best to concentrate on getting to know the girl’s group of friends before you spend time talking to her. If you can make her friends laugh and enjoy your company, getting the girl you want will be a piece of cake!

I really like this piece of advice from Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, author of The Art of the Approach, in his excellent free e-newsletter: "Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses aren’t up."

Furthermore, he warns that you’re not doing your chances any favors by waiting til she’s alone: "If you wait until she’s by herself to meet her, you’re walking into a situation where she’s going to be WAY more defensive than usual." So learn to be sociable, and just have fun with her friends! If you can make them enjoy your company, getting your "target’s" approval will be a piece of cake.

This is also where it’s good to go with girls in the same social network as you…you already have the approval of mutual friends. The book, Sex in America, says that 60% of married couples meet through friends, work, or mutual activities. That's pretty impressive! So it pays to use and expand your network. For more information on using networking to your benefit, make sure to check out the links at the bottom of the page.

Finally, the trait all women REALLY want: 7. A man with a purpose. Believe me, women don’t expect every guy they meet to be worth hundreds of millions of dollars, have more power than the mayor, and be more handsome than Brad Pitt. They don’t expect you to be wildly successful. But they DO want you to be headed towards success. They DO want you to have direction. They DO want you to be living up to your potential.

And those aren’t bad expectations to have! Remember, "Behind every great man is a great woman." You may not be at the top just yet, but as long as you’re heading there, with goals in life, you’re bound to attract women. They WANT to help you reach the summit. Just show some potential, and that is attractive in itself.

I highly suggest you read "The Way of the Superior Man," by David Deida. It details the importance of having a life purpose, both for you and for your girlfriend or wife. The book also explains the very important idea that if someone doesn’t fit into your purpose, or detracts you from it, then she isn’t worth your time. As I said above, don’t just go for any old girl: go for the ones who fit YOU, and who make YOU a better person. That’s what we men should really want!

I hope all of this advice helps you out as you seek to improve yourself and attract the women who matter to you. Remember that it isn’t important to know what the bimbo who wants to spend all your money wants: it’s important to know what women who want to be with you want. Empower yourself by being choosy, and you’ll be sure to attract the woman who’s right for you.

By Kenneth Oboh


Online dating can be a very efficient way of meeting new, sexy and interesting women. But if you don't know the right things to do when communicating with women on dating sites, it can get very difficult to meet the kind of women you want. I'm going to outline a few tips here to ensure that you succeed and get a steady stream of women wanting to meet you.

Your screen name is your "first impression" in meeting women online. When making up your screen name to register with an online dating service, spend as much time as you need to come up with a good screen name. Your screen name is, just like your photo, one of the most important factors that will determine your success with women online.

It is very important when writing your profile to be a little bit cocky but playful when describing yourself. You see, women are drawn to very confident (but not arrogant) men. This will INSTANTLY set you apart from all the other "clueless" men out there trying to meet women online.

For example, instead of saying "I am a 24 year old guy. I love mountain climbing, reading books and clubbing in my spare time. My favourite food is lamb chops", e.t.c. you should say something like this instead:

"Why does everybody keep asking me how old I am? Bunny boiling stalkers everywhere I go! But if you're not a stalker and you're good looking, then I definitely WANT to hear from you. I'm 24 years old. (sshhhh! Don't tell anyone!) I hate hobbies, why does everyone have to have hobbies? But having said that, I once took a salsa dancing class, it was in Southern Spain, glorious sunshine, fine surroundings and impressive dance hall. The only problem was I couldn't understand a damn thing the teacher was saying. I'd signed up where it said 'Spanish Students Only.' If you can do the salsa, I want another teacher, and please speak English too. A nice looking girl, not a stalker, can do the salsa, speaks English, Ohhh, absolute heaven!!"

Do you see the difference? Which profile do you think looks more interesting and is more likely to get a response from a lot of women online? You guessed it, "Mr Salsa". Now, you may think that by "cutting out" the girls who don't dance the salsa, I'm limiting my response rate, but you'd be surprised at what this kind of pre-qualifying or selectiveness does for my success rate with women online.

Now, here's a tip on how to get a girl to have "steamy cyber sex" which might even sometimes lead to full sex, if you play your cards right with her. As you're chatting with a woman, (and this works best if you're discussing a fun topic like physical hobbies or games in a playful way), you ask her if she's ever had an online "massage." Whatever her answer, you can then begin to describe why YOUR massages are the best and what you would do to her if you were there massaging her.

Now, it is extremely important to NOT get too graphic with your language and description too soon after you start the "massage" talk. Let it just be purely about massaging and wait for HER to be the one to escalate the flirting into a direction where you can get more sexual. Remember, you don't want her to think you're some freaky pervert. You're trying to demonstrate CLASS, but in a way that will get you fantastic results with women online.